Healing Through Conscious Relationship
Prepare for Conscious Love or Save Your Relationship
Join WaitlistWisdom of the Heart: Healing Through Conscious Relationship, is a transformative journey designed for both couples and singles seeking to deepen their connection and heal through conscious love.
Whether you're preparing your heart for a new relationship or looking to rejuvenate an existing one, this program provides everything you need to build a conscious relationship with yourself and your partner.
There's a lot of misconception about what a Conscious Relationship really is...
Many people think it's all about perfection, constant harmony, or always being on the same page with your partner.
But in reality, a Conscious Relationship is about embracing the journey of growth and self-awareness.
It's about being present with each other's imperfections, holding space for healing, and understanding that love is not just about the good times—it's also about how we navigate the hard times and differences.
The challenge is, most of us have NO idea how to build a Conscious Relationship. Instead we find ourselves stuck in toxic cycles, defensiveness, big emotions - and our unhealed wounds keep us disconnected from ourselves and each other.
It doesn't have to be this way.
In our program, Healing Through Conscious Relationship, you'll gain practical tools, guided exercises, and profound insights to help you break free from these patterns and create a truly conscious and fulfilling relationship (even if your partner isn't ready to do the work).
In This Program You Will:
- Learn Communication Tools and Practices To Cultivate Connection In Your Relationship (And Avoid The Defensive Or Shut Down Responses)
- Understand Your Needs and Be Able To Articulate Them Effectively
- Claim Your Desires, Activate Your Voice and Communicate Powerfully
- Discover Your “Imago Workup”, a powerful therapeutic framework for understanding the blueprint of your relationship patterns
- Do somatic experiencing work to clear fear and reconnect to your intuition
- Embody the qualities needed to call in the partner and build the relationship your heart yearns for
- Learn how to self-soothe in conflict so you can act from confidence and maturity in relationships
- Understanding the inner child and inner teen needs that run your relationship patterns
- Discover What The 'Freedom and Commitment Story' Means and How to Rewrite Yours
Your Eight Week Journey to Conscious Love:
Module One: Conscious Relationship 101
- The Core Components of Conscious Relationships
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Becoming a co-creator of joy and happiness in your relationships
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Exercise for easily identifying what behaviours need to go for your relationship to improve
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3 of the most powerful Conscious Relationship Exercises for Singles/Dating
Module Two: Building The Foundation For A Thriving Relationship
- The 2 Vital Ingredients For Your Relationship to Thrive
- How to assess the level of the '2 vital ingredients' in your relationship
- How to approach your partner when you don’t feel safe
- Deepening your own willingness: self-responsibility and shadow work
- Practices to do on your own, and additional practices you can try with a partner when you’re in a relationship
Module Three: Break Free From The Minimizer / Maximizer Phenomenon
- Understand the Turtle and the Hailstorm Philosophy, determine whether you're the turtle or hailstorm archetype, and what this means for how you and your partner communicate
- Pinpoint your number one practice to take on for improving how you feel in all of your relationships
- 3 Simple communication tools and somatic practices for learning to love and listen better in relationship
Module Four: Speaking The Language of Love
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Why you’re attracted to partners who in many ways are opposite to you (and why this is actually a good thing!)
- A proven therapeutic exercise for uncovering your personal “imago” in romantic relationship and what your most potent personal learning is at this time in your journey
- How to go about doing that work in a way that feels empowering and easeful rather than heavy where you’re always “processing” the relationship or your patterns instead of having fun and enjoying life
Module Five: Childhood Adaptations and The Four Core Wounds
- Discover The 4 Core Wounds that Disrupt Peace in a Relationship
- A potent exercise to help you identify which core wound is operating in your relationship patterns (and your partners if you’re in a relationship)
- Identify the top need of each core wound in order to begin the process of feeling more safe, loved, understood and free whether single or in a relationship
Module Six: Becoming and Being With a High Value Partner
- Learn how to radiate self-awareness and authentic expression of your needs, dreams and desires through simple shadow work practices and communication tools
- Working with insecurity and moving toward confidence and maturity in how you show up in the world
- Learning how to make behaviour change requests from a partner in a non-combative way
- Understanding and expressing your needs, while making room for growth
- Building curiosity and generosity into your way of relating with yourself and others
Module Seven: Stepping Into Your Wise Inner Adult
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Proven practices for uncovering the way your inner child drives the bus in your relationships
- Learning how to hold their hand while leading as an adult in your relationships (romantic, family, friends and work)
- The Differences Between Boundaries, Walls and Electric Fences: How to know when to be firm, when to be flexible, and when to be fierce.
Module Eight: Transformational Communication Practices for Navigating High Intensity Conflict
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Communication tools and practices for deepening connection and expressing your needs
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What to do when your partner just won’t listen or hold space
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What to do when you feel like you aren’t able to express your vulnerability out of fear or being rejected
FREE BONUSES:
Bonus #1
Somatic Attunement with Self and Partners - Bonus Module with Sheleana Aiyana
- Where do you end and I begin? How to be an attentive and present partner without getting lost in the other person
- Giving and Receiving: how to create a healthy relationship to both so you can let in love fully and give without feeling taken advantage of (chair exercise - somatic practice)
- 3 Powerful Somatic Practices for Self-Soothing and Helping you come home to yourself if you feel out of your centre
Value: $250.00
Bonus #2
Two Live (Recorded) Somatic Experiencing Video Sessions with Dr.Spomenka
These sessions will empower you to explore and release the somatic impacts of past experiences, paving the way for a more conscious and fulfilling relationship.
Dr. Spomenka is a seasoned therapist with extensive experience in trauma recovery.
Value: $300.00
Bonus #3
Guided Audio for Self-Soothing with Sheleana Aiyana
Self-soothing is an essential skill that empowers you to navigate emotional challenges with grace and maturity. This guided audio is a valuable tool to have in your conscious relationship toolkit, promoting healing and fostering a deeper, more authentic connection with yourself and those around you.
Value: $150.00
MEET YOUR GUIDES

Sheleana Aiyana
Sheleana Aiyana is a best selling author of Becoming The One and the founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, conscious relationship, and somatic healing inform her holistic approach to seeing relationship as a spiritual path. She lives with her husband, Ben and their daughter on the unceded territory of the Coast Salish peoples, now known as Salt Spring Island, BC.

Ben Goresky
Ben Goresky is a men's coach, addiction counsellor, and the host of The Evolving Man Podcast. With a focus on men’s work, conscious relationships, and addiction recovery, Ben breaks men out of their unconscious patterns and helps them find their power. Ben is co-director of The Arka Brotherhood, a community of 500+ men focussed on conscious growth and evolution. He also teaches conscious relationship work for couples with his wife Sheleana Aiyana in their course "Creating Conscious Love”, and he leads a live relationship coaching circle for men called The Conscious Relationship Council.

Nick Solaczek
Nick Solaczek is a coach, public speaker and Certified IMAGO Clinical Therapist. His work is focused on helping couples growth together instead of growing apart. Nick teaches the fundamental skills people need to experience breakthroughs and transformation in their relationship, so that they can build a life and relationship that they love.