Freedom from Relationship Anxiety

Rewire your nervous system, Heal your trust wound and Become Secure

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Do you feel overwhelmed with anxiety when it comes to relationships and dating?

Perhaps you find yourself chasing unavailable love again, feeling like you can’t fully be yourself with the person you’re interested in, and terrified they could leave at any moment…

Or you feel like you’ve finally found a healthy loving relationship but you struggle with intrusive thoughts - constantly questioning if they’re the right person…and terrified to commit to them fully.

You may feel like it’s hard to trust what people say even if there’s no reason to doubt them, hard to trust they’re fully committed to you - and even harder to trust yourself.

If any of these experiences sound like you, please know that you’re not alone.

I have worked with thousands of people who’ve also experienced these same painful patterns…

And even though so many of them thought they could never break free - they did.

They were able to find freedom, confidence & security in deeply fulfilling relationships.

And I know you can too.

These painful patterns we play out are forms of Relationship Anxiety.

At the heart of these relationship patterns are old lingering beliefs and cellular memories from when we were young.

Was it safe in our family system to speak up and use our voice?

Were we punished or sent to our rooms when we displayed emotions that were deemed “unacceptable”?

Was our expression encouraged and celebrated, or shunned and ignored?

Many of us learned how to behave in order to receive love in our first families, and this can lead to a loss of our own voice, or fear or asking for what we truly want. Many of us also experienced confusing or unreliable behaviour from our caregivers that today has resulted in fearful or anxious emotions when dating, or in relationships.

There are two types of Relationship Anxiety:

1. Anxious attachment that leads to chasing unavailable love and being on a hamster wheel with avoidant partners.

2. Relationship anxiety that keeps us in a state of constant doubt or mistrust in ourselves and our partners even when the relationship is committed and stable.

Both of these lead to the same thing - pushing love away and sabotaging the potential for a fulfilling partnership.

Why We Fall Back Into The Same Patterns

You’ve likely heard a lot about attachment styles on social media. There are endless memes and posts about how to heal our anxious or avoidant attachment styles.

And while a lot of it is well intentioned, much of the attachment healing content out there sets us up to fall back into the same patterns.

There’s often a huge focus on changing our mindset first. The idea being if you do mindset work and practice positive thinking, you’ll get different results.

And while this can be very effective for some things, more often than not with Relationship Anxiety this approach only works for a short time.

You may have been there before, caught up in the excitement “wow, I’m really showing up differently!” Maybe you’ve started speaking up more, setting some boundaries, feeling secure and confident for a few weeks - or even months…

But then something happens, often something so subtle you don’t even notice it, and the body & subconscious mind snap back into its old ways and default patterns.

Leaving you feeling discouraged and like there’s something wrong with you for not being able to make lasting change.

I can promise you there’s nothing wrong with you. You simply need a different approach to create permanent change in your body, mind and spirit.

Here’s the thing, relationship anxiety is deeply embedded in our nervous system.

And in order to heal our attachment patterns and our trust wound FOR GOOD - we need to address the attachment issue FIRST at the Nervous system level...

Introducing...

Freedom from Relationship Anxiety:

A 6 Week Journey to Rewire Your Nervous System, Heal Your Trust Wound and Become Secure

Join Sheleana Aiyana, Founder of Rising Woman and Best Selling Author of Becoming the One for this new Program where you’ll discover the nervous system approach to healing your anxious attachment patterns for good.

In Freedom from Relationship Anxiety you will:

Put an end to chasing unavailable love or trying to win love from avoidant partners who leave you feeling anxious and confused.
Know the difference between your fears and reality so you don’t implode a healthy relationship.
Learn communication strategies to speak up and practice using your voice with new or long-term partners.
Access somatic tools and rituals for self-soothing so you can rewire your nervous system and feel in control & confident.
Transform feelings of unworthiness or fear into confidence, wholeness, and self-trust.
Get out of your head and into the present moment so you can let go of needing to rush things along.
Embody secure attachment so you can experience a deeply fulfilling, mature relationship where you feel seen, loved, and adored.

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This Program is for you if:

You chase unavailable love or find yourself caught up with avoidant partners on repeat even though you’ve done inner-work and recognize the pattern

OR
You’re in a committed relationship but you still feel anxious and experience a lot of doubt, uncertainty and confusion.

And...
Having hard conversions feels difficult for you and can lead to things being left unsaid.
You sometimes try to rush a relationship toward commitment because the anxiety you feel with not knowing where things will go is too much for you.
The sensation of anxiety, confusion or uncertainty when dating can make you feel like you want to escape.
At times, you have unknowingly sabotaged a connection by constantly testing a person too hard until they end it.
You find it hard to trust, even if a person hasn’t given you any reason to doubt them.
You seem to draw in the same types of people and you are ready to break the pattern and meet someone who’s fully available.
You want to become more confident, self-expressed and authentic in your relationships.

6 Weeks To Becoming Secure

Module 1

Understanding and Identifying People With Avoidant Attachment

Learn what causes avoidant attachment and the myths around avoidants
Know the difference between an Avoidant who's not ready vs. someone with Avoidant tendencies that may be ready for a relationship
Understand your role in the anxious-avoidant dance and learn how to create meaningful change in the relationship
Find out if your relationship has the potential to transform into a Conscious Relationship or not
Tips for if you find yourself dating or in a relationship with an avoidant
'Relationship Health' Checkup. A checklist and journaling prompts to help determine the health of your relationship

Module 2

Healing Anxious Attachment and Becoming Secure

Learn what causes Anxious attachment
Know the difference between Anxiety fueled by Red Flags, your intuition telling you to pay attention, and relationship anxiety in a healthy and safe relationship
Learn what makes a person secure, and discover tools to begin working towards embodying secure attachment in your relationships

Module 3

Managing Anxiety During Dating and In New or Long Term Relationships

Self care commitments and how to prioritize your mental wellness while healing attachment wounds
A somatic approach to setting boundaries
Communication prompts to help you bring your truth to the table in new or long-term relationships
How to have a clearing: a simple script outline to use with a partner to talk about hard things

Module 4

Ending the Chase and Interrupting Self Sabotage

How to reality check yourself in the midst of feeling anxious
Understand and end self-sabotage behaviours
Discover strategies and tools for when anxious attachment is triggered.

Module 5

Healing the Trust Wound

A powerful process to understand and identify the origins of your trust wound
How to process anger and move toward forgiveness & acceptance
Inner-child work and reparenting
Building sacred trust with yourself

Module 6

Reality Checking: Knowing the Difference Between Anxiety, Fear and Intuition

Clarifying your feelings and needs and maintaining your truth in a relationship
A simple process for deciphering between anxiety, fear and intuition so you can learn how to trust yourself more fully
How to communicate when you’re feeling something is off in the relationship
Understanding shadow figures and how they play a role in your present relational struggles.

+ Free Bonus Module

Conscious Relationship:

What does it look like inside of a secure connection?

Learn the hallmarks of a Conscious Relationship so you have a vision for what it is that you want in all of your relational interactions.

+ Free Bonus Videos & Audios

A Library of Self-Soothing Tools

Somatic work is the foundation of this program. If you truly want to heal and be free from relationship anxiety, you must rewire your nervous system - we do this through somatic practices. We can only get so far on the healing journey if we just keep it in the mind. We have to practice these new ways of being in the body.

This program has a full library of self-soothing somatic practices for:

Reclaiming Your Boundaries (7 min video)
Connecting with Your Body Wisdom (8 min video + audio)
Speaking Your Truth (20 mins video + audio)
Shifting into New Beliefs (10 min video)
Releasing and Gathering In (15 min video + audio)
Nourishing Yourself Through Touch (12 min video + audio)
Scanning Your Body Through Meditation (10 min audio)
Returning to Center with Box Breathing (4 min video + audio)

There's also a video in the library that explores in depth the importance of somatic work and how it can support you on the healing journey. (21 min video)

How The Program Works

Weekly Learning Videos & Worksheets

As soon as you join you get immediate access to all 6 modules with videos, exercises and worksheets to help you rewire your nervous system, heal your trust wound and become secure.

Six Weeks of Deep & Transformational Learning

You’ll experience six weeks of deep self-exploration and nervous system rewiring so you can heal anxious attachment patterns for good.

Lifetime Access to Modules

Once the live program is complete, you'll receive lifetime access to the program recordings.

Live Interactive Q&A Sessions with Sheleana

Access Live Interactive Sessions with Sheleana where you can ask questions, receive personal support and connect with the community of like-minded women who are on a similar healing journey to you.

Exclusive Telegram Group with Sheleana

Receive weekly voice notes from Sheleana with new teachings and encouragement for the attachment healing journey.

Receive personal mentorship with Sheleana as you go through the program.

It’s no secret that healing anxious attachment patterns can feel hard and confusing.

This self study program will give you the tools to rewire your nervous system, heal your trust wound and learn how to develop secure attachment in relationship...

In order to go DEEP into this work, it’s important to have someone who can model secure attachment and support you through your unique challenges and nervous system patterns.

Especially as you learn new ways of being.

As you go through this program, you’ll start to transform.

Which means you’ll start to surface new questions and new parts of yourself you didn’t know were there.

When it comes to relationship anxiety, this can be extremely confusing.

So let me ask you…

What do you do when that happens? And what will you do when you get stuck?

This is why it’s critical to have someone to answer your questions right when these new challenges pop up.

You can bring your questions to Sheleana.

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Meet Your Guide

Hi, I’m Sheleana Aiyana, and I’m the Founder of Rising Woman, a community of over 2.5 million seeking to expand their self-awareness, heal their relationship wounds and reclaim their true nature.

For the past 8 years, I’ve facilitated online programs, spoken on stages to hundreds of people, and published a best selling book that has been translated into 13 languages in 16 countries. Today, my work reaches over 3 million people monthly.

Through my writing, programs and online experiences, I guide people to find an authentic pathway of deep healing through dynamic attachment repatterning work, inherited family trauma work and spiritual teachings. It fulfills me to see the results that my clients, students, and readers experience with my guidance and support.

After working with hundreds of clients from around the world, what I’ve realized is that – no matter their background – many people find themselves caught in the same unhealthy beliefs, harmful patterns, and vicious cycles in relationships.

It is my mission to support as many humans as possible heal any harmful patterns around love, awaken their empowered self, and create the conscious relationship that they deserve. And nothing would fulfill me more than for you to have the same experience.

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You might be wondering — does this program work? Will it work for me? How do I know Shay is the right mentor to guide me?

I want to assure you that your concerns are completely valid. It is also important to me that you feel completely safe as you begin your transformational journey to heal attachment patterns for good.

So I’m making this investment risk-free.

I want to create the best possible program for you. If 30 days after purchase you no longer feel the program is a fit for you — then just send an email to [email protected] and let us know why it's not a fit (so we can use your feedback to improve the program), and you will receive a full 100% refund. No questions asked.